Amos 3:3-AV Can two walk together, except they be agreed?
MONEY TROUBLE:
THE INTERFERENCE OF FAMILY AND FRIEND:
The interferences of family and friends is another marriage killer. I have found out that sometime family want to try out the other family spouses. They call this "Take a taste" Whenever, they are ignored, they try to destroy that marriage with malice, they never let up, and never stop seeking for opportunity to bring that marriage to ruin. The newly couple can prevent this from happening, if they talk about what role family and friends is going to play in this new relationship. How we will deal with "Hear say" If you refused to discussed with each other the hear say of the day, and give each other a chance to give their side of what happen. Your marriage will not lost two years. Even it it lost that long, it will always be in quick sand.
FALLING PREY TO A MIND POISONER:
There are people in this world that can tell you things about your father, and cause you to hate him. A mind poisoner have a way of skillfully transmitted his or her feelings of hate in such a way, that you also hated the person that they are telling you about without even knowing what the person looks like. For unknown reasons, women seem to fall prey to a mind poisoner more easily than men.
To protect yourself from a poisoner, you have to ask yourself a series of questioning. Why is he /she telling me all this? What does this have to do with me? What are the other side of the story? What is he/she trying to accomplishes here? Does the victims have a right to an hearing? Just suppose this is a mistake?
The most dangerous mind poisoners are call "Mischief makers" They did things for jokes, he did not hate his or her victims, nor even meant any harm. I over heard one worker say" Things is too quiet around here, I need to start some rumors, we need some excitement"
Romans 3:13-AV Their throat [is] an open sepulchre; with their tongues they have used deceit; the poison of asps [is] under their lips:
James 3:5-AV Even so the tongue is a little member, and boasteth great things. Behold, how great a matter a little fire kindleth! James 3:6-AV And the tongue [is] a fire, a world of iniquity: so is the tongue among our members, that it defileth the whole body, and setteth on fire the course of nature; and it is set on fire of hell.
James 3:7-AV For every kind of beasts, and of birds, and of serpents, and of things in the sea, is tamed, and hath been tamed of mankind: James 3:8-AV But the tongue can no man tame; [it is] an unruly evil, full of deadly poison.
SOME OF THE MOST CUNNING MIND POISONERS ARE IN THE CHURCHS:
If you drink down every thing you hear from church people, you will be soon ruing. Proverbs 17:17-AV A friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.
Proverbs 18:24-AV A man [that hath] friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a friend [that] sticketh closer than a brother.
The attack of family and friend upon a marriage will comes in three phases. The first phase is when they came in siding with one member, but at the same time they really came in to bring about a split, and not to unite the couple. A man and his wife are one and whenever, a problem arises among them, they should be treated as one. This is the most dangerous phase, because they came in as friend. The second phase is when they came in as friend of both partners. However, the encouragement that they give is intended to split them up. The third and final phase is when they came in as enemy, they declare open war upon both. This happen when the other two phase failed.
BAD HABITS:
TABOO:
POWER STRUGGLE:
1Timothy 5:14-AV I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully.
Ephesians 5:23-AV For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
While commanding the man to be the head of the wife. If a decision cannot be reach, quickly, the man have the rights to say" Ok this is how it must go" If this system is not set up, the family will get tied up in power struggle, tug of war for a long time. If a woman has any objection to a man being her head, the man that she is with is not the right man for her. Any time she meet the man that is right for her she will surrender that attitude.
UNSATISFIED SEX LIFE:
CONFLICTING SEXUAL PREFERENCES:
BAD BACK GROUND:
NO SPIRITUAL GUIDANCE:
Ephesians 5:24-AV Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so [let] the wives [be] to their own husbands in every thing. Ephesians 5:25-AV Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; Ephesians 5:28-AV So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. Ephesians 5:29-AV For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: Ephesians 5:33-AV Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife [see] that she reverence [her] husband.
1Timothy 5:14-AV I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully. 1Timothy 5:15-AV For some are already turned aside after Satan.
Matthew 7:12-AV Therefore all things whatsoever ye would that men should do to you, do ye even so to them: for this is the law and the prophets.
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